TWWWG: October 17


Likely as not, the child you can do the least with will do the most to make you proud.
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~ Mignon McLaughlin

Each Saturday, we send you a roundup of articles and resources that will help you be a better grandparent. We may receive a commission for purchases made through affiliate links in this email. This is an easy and much appreciated way for you to support More Than Grand!

Growing as a Grandparent

Feeling uncertain about how the holidays will go as a grandparent? Click here to join our FREE 7-Day Holiday Harmony Challenge (starts Oct 20) and learn how to handle visits, gifts, and family dynamics with confidence.

When you say yes to every request, you can end up feeling used and taken for granted. Resentment usually isn’t far behind. Learn the signs your help has become an expectation, plus word-for-word scripts to reset things without starting a fight in Feeling Used as a Grandparent? How to Talk to Your Adult Child.

Connecting with Your Grandchildren

When our grandkids feel as if they aren’t treated fairly, long-lasting resentments can build. We shared advice with one grandmother who wasn’t sure how to handle it when she wanted to buy something for one grandchild, but couldn’t find something to get the other.

Grandparents often provide a safe space for their grandchildren. One woman’s essay on what that meant during her turbulent childhood has a lesson for all grandparents: her grandmother made her feel like the most important person in the world. Read Chlorine and Cigarette Smoke by Jamie Rachelle.​

Helping Parents

Wondering where you fit when your adult child hires a doula? Guest writer Jackie Kelleher, a doula with 30+ years of experience, shares how grandparents and doulas can work as a dream team to support new families. Discover why this isn't about competition—it's about collaboration that benefits everyone involved.

When there is a grandbaby on the way, it’s so much fun to get to indulge in all those adorable outfits and cool new gadgets. Before you start your shopping, there are some things to keep in mind. If new parents have set up a baby registry, that’s a good place to start. Read First-Time Grandparent Baby Registry Shopping Tips to discover how to channel your enthusiasm into the most helpful purchases.

Gift Ideas

One of the joys of reading to children is exposing them to the playfulness of language. The rhyming verse in the You Stole My Name board books features animals who share their names with other animals, flowers and tools. The hand-painted illustrations make these books you won’t mind have sitting on your coffee table! Order now on Amazon.​

ICYMI: Give your grandchildren a Halloween treat that lasts longer than candy! Little pumpkins get to enjoy solving Hidden Pictures puzzles and placing stickers to customize Halloween characters in this activity book. Add it to your Amazon cart!​

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