TWWWG: November 29


Rituals are made not just for us, but for those we want to pass them on to.
~Andre Aciman

Each Saturday, we send you a roundup of articles and resources that will help you be a better grandparent. We may receive a commission for purchases made through affiliate links in this email. This is an easy and much appreciated way for you to support More Than Grand!

Growing as a Grandparent

Competition between grandparents often peaks during the holidays, when we may worry that we are falling short or missing out. Learn how to stop competing for time and gifts, and start building the peaceful family celebrations you really want in When You're the 'Other' Grandparent: Managing Holiday Competition.

Looking for books for a new grandmother to help her embrace her new role? There are several great choices. Looking for books specifically for a new grandfather? Not so easy! Being a Proactive Grandfather: How to Make a Difference is one of the few exceptions—and it makes a great gift for a grandfather in your life!

Connecting with Your Grandchildren

If this is your first Christmas or Hanukkah as a grandparent, we’ve got some tips to make it extra special. Read Celebrating Your Grandbaby's First Holiday Season for inspiration!

Many grandparents worry about showing favoritism due to different circumstances with each grandchild. Learn practical ways to make each grandchild feel equally loved and valued, while creating traditions that work for your whole family in Grandparent Favoritism: How to Treat Each of Your Grandkids Like the Favorite Grandchild.

Helping Parents

If you’ll be visiting or hosting your grandchildren this holiday season, you must read Holiday Safety Hazards: What Grandparents Need to Know. Holiday safety hazards abound when there are small children in the house!

And in the same vein, would you be able to handle the small emergencies that can crop up with a child in the house? See what you need to be prepared in Beyond Bandaids: The Ultimate Grandparent’s First Aid Kit.

Gift Ideas

DeeDee fell in love with this darling set of books with first words for babies and toddlers. Designed by a professional watercolor artist and licensed speech therapist, Our Little Library Vol. 3 features charming watercolor illustrations and foundational first words that will help you build your grandchild's vocabulary. The five board books include Sports, Space, Dinosaurs, Tools, and Bugs. You have to see how sweet they are!

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